college recruiting support —

for more than just a scholarship

The recruiting process wasn’t built for clarity. It was built for the lucky few.

Most student-athletes — and their parents — are left to figure it out on their own.

What should your kid say in an email to a coach?
When should they start reaching out?
What’s realistic for their playing level?
Do they even want to keep playing — or are they scared to say they’re unsure?

It’s confusing. It’s pressure-filled. And it often feels like everyone else knows something you don’t.

Club coaches are stretched thin. High school counselors don’t know your athlete.

And recruiting services? Expensive, impersonal, and focused on one thing: getting someone, anyone, to sign.

You deserve more than that.

The recruiting process is a black box full of gate-kept knowledge, complicated jargon, and self-doubt.

This isn’t just about getting a scholarship. It’s about helping your athlete figure out who they are and what they want.

Because what’s at stake here isn’t just where they’ll play next.

It’s:
— how they advocate for themselves
— how they show up with confidence
— how they handle rejection
— how they define success on their terms

That’s why I created The Athlete Advocate — to support the whole athlete.


The one who wants to keep playing… but needs a guide.
The one who’s been overlooked… but deserves options.
The one who wants to make a proud, clear decision… and feel good about what comes next.

If that sounds like your athlete — you’re in the right place.

Skip the stress.

Start with a strategy. ~

Skip the stress. Start with a strategy. ~

Introducing

The Recruiting Roadmap 

A 6-month private coaching experience for soccer student-athletes and their families.

We focus on recruiting strategy, confidence, and communication — not just highlight reels and rankings.

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Mentorship for student-athletes and families navigating the college recruiting process —

with clarity, confidence, and a coach who’s actually in their corner.

This coaching program is for…

  • High school athletes in grades 9–12

  • Students who want to explore college sports with intention

  • Families looking for personalized guidance, not pressure or generalized information

What’s Included

Kickoff Call

We start by mapping out your athlete’s goals — from playing level and academic interests to school culture and values. This is the foundation for everything that follows.

Personalized Recruiting Game Plan + College List

We’ll build a customized college list with stretch, fit, and safety programs. I’ll walk your student through how to research schools, assess division fit (DI, DII, DIII, NAIA, JuCo), and build a real plan for outreach and timing.

6 Monthly 1:1 Sessions

These deep-dive calls are where growth happens. Whether we’re reviewing emails, preparing for a call with a coach, managing burnout, or updating video — these sessions meet your athlete where they are.

Coach Communication Support

I’ll help draft and review emails, roleplay phone conversations, and teach your athlete how to follow up (and stand out) without being pushy. They’ll gain confidence, clarity, and professional communication tools.

Coach Communication Support

I’ll help draft and review emails, roleplay phone conversations, and teach your athlete how to follow up (and stand out) without being pushy. They’ll gain confidence, clarity, and professional communication tools.

Parent Call + Support Guide

This program includes a dedicated call just for parents — to walk you through timelines, coach contact rules, red flags, financial aid basics, and how to support your athlete (without adding pressure).

Confidence + Mindset Coaching

This is bigger than sports. We’ll cover how to handle rejection, make values-based decisions, stay grounded through stress, and define success beyond a scholarship.

Highlight Reel + Portfolio Feedback

No need for a professional editing team — I’ll help your athlete structure a strong video, select the right clips, and organize their stats, awards, and story in a way coaches actually want to see.

Unlimited Text + Email Support (M–F)

If a coach replies unexpectedly? If your athlete has a bad game and spirals? I’m here between sessions for check-ins, quick feedback, and support when it’s needed most.

Hi! I’m Alex

By day, I’ve worked in the sports compliance office of a D1 Big-1o university, played semi-professional soccer in England, and streamlined operations for a championship-winning MLS team.

By night, I’ve helped hundreds of young athletes realize their full potential on and off the field as a club soccer coach.

Now, I’m bringing my Masters in Intercollegiate Athlete Leadership and my over 2 decades of sports knowledge into a custom program to help athletes and their families.

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  • Alex is such a wise and loving mentor. I was so impressed and am so grateful for the way he coached my son and the team through some emotional moments.

    Paige, mom to a 17-year-old athlete

  • I've learned so much from Alex, not just about soccer but about teamwork and dedication. I am so thankful that he believed in me and always pushed me.

    T, 16-year-old athlete

  • Whenever I had a problem big or small, Alex was always so calm and understanding and just listened to me patiently -- and then offered what he thought would be the best approach.

    L, 14-year-old athlete

  • Our boys have learned and grown tremendously under Alex's care. His attention to their personal growth as well as their athletic growth didn't go unnoticed.

    Parents, 14-year-old athletes

  • Alex has had such a positive and lasting impact on my son. I was talking to him and he said: "Mom, you know how people talk about role models? I think maybe Alex is a role model for me."

    Maria, mom to 14-year-old athlete

What you can expect…

  • A clear recruiting plan — with schools that actually fit

  • Confidence to communicate directly with coaches

  • A stronger highlight reel and recruiting profile

  • Less stress for the whole family

  • Emotional and strategic support that lasts far beyond the process

You don’t have to figure this out alone —

and neither does your kid.

The Recruiting Roadmap Program

Best Value

PAY IN FULL

$2,447

6 Month Program

  • 6 one-on-one monthly sessions (1 hr)

  • Kickoff call (1 hr)

  • Customized recruiting plan + college list

  • Dedicated parent coaching session (1 hr)

  • Highlight reel and portfolio feedback

  • Ongoing email/text support (unlimited)

  • Confidence + mindset coaching

PAYMENT PLAN: $1,350 (2 payments)

 FAQs

  • This mentorship is for high school student-athletes (grades 9–12) who want to play sports in college — or are even just considering it — and want guidance navigating the recruiting process. It’s also for families who want more clarity, less stress, and support beyond what school counselors or club coaches can typically offer. Athletes from any sport, division interest, or background are welcome.

  • That’s exactly what we’ll figure out together. The first part of the program is focused on identifying the best academic, athletic, and social fit — and creating a college list based on those values. Your athlete doesn’t need to have it all figured out. That’s what mentorship is for.

  • No — and any program that makes that promise isn’t being honest. What I can guarantee is that your athlete will walk away with a customized strategy, a clear plan of action, stronger communication skills, and more confidence in themselves and their decisions. I’m not selling spots on a roster. I’m offering personalized guidance through the process.

  • While my personal coaching background is in soccer, this mentorship is built around the recruiting process itself — not sport-specific drills or training. For now, I only work with soccer players.

  • Not at all. I work with students pursuing DII, DIII, NAIA, and even junior college programs. In fact, many of the most rewarding, growth-centered athletic experiences happen outside of DI programs. My job is to help your athlete find the right fit — not just the most recognizable name.

  • Once your athlete enrolls, you’ll receive a link to book your kickoff session. From there, we’ll coordinate session times that work with your family’s schedule — first, our kick-off call. Then, typically one session per month for six months. Calls take place over Zoom and last 45–60 minutes.

  • The program is athlete-first, but I deeply value parent collaboration. There is a dedicated parent call included in the program, and you’re always welcome to attend the kickoff session or listen in on calls (with your student’s comfort in mind). I also provide guidance on how to support your athlete between sessions.

  • You’ll have access to me via text and email (Monday–Friday) throughout the program. Whether it’s a coach reply, a video question, or a confidence wobble after a rough game — I’ll be there for quick feedback and support.

  • Aside from the monthly 1:1 sessions (45–60 minutes), most students spend 30–60 minutes per week implementing what we discuss — writing emails, researching schools, updating their portfolio, etc. Everything is broken into small, doable steps. No added overwhelm.

  • Some families are ready to take it from there — and others want continued support. I offer extended mentorship packages on a case-by-case basis, which we can discuss near the end of your program.

  • Yes. The program can be paid in full ($2,447) or in two payments of $1,350 — one upfront, and one at the start of month three (total: $2,700). Payment links will be provided after your discovery call.

See if we’re a good fit

Got more questions? Let’s connect on a free discovery call to see if your athlete and I would work well together.

Because your kid deserves more

than a highlight reel and a handshake.